Emotional management is not only important for your career, but for your whole life.

Ladykylie
4 min readApr 25, 2022

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We have to face our positive and negative emotions since birth, and we have to learn how to control them as we grow up. As for now, I don’t think you can fully control them, so we have to learn to live with them, or at least soften them a little.

Sounds like I am just talking about “be mature” — is it that simple?

I have no objection to this conclusion, but come to think of it, you can’t just always criticise someone who are easier to get angry or feel sad as “immature”. This is because one’s growth background and primary family have a major impact on a person’s emotional response.

Some people live in a family where the parents are very emotional with mental health issues or violent tendencies, they lack a calm environment from the start and there were no positive role models to…

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Ladykylie

Articles mainly in Cantonese, sometime English or German, about Hongkong politic or life in Germany. 非華裔香港人。文章以粤語及正體中文為主,偶有英語或德語。主要寫香港政治歷史,有時寫語文研究/天文/德國生活。